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		<title>By: 'Cilla</title>
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		<dc:creator>'Cilla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 01:30:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had to print this and post it were I&#039;ll see it often.. the mirror in the bathroom!!

Thanks for the new way of thinking :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had to print this and post it were I&#8217;ll see it often.. the mirror in the bathroom!!</p>
<p>Thanks for the new way of thinking <img src='http://www.apooobooks.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: T. Michelle Theus</title>
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		<dc:creator>T. Michelle Theus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 06:09:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love it!  I agree.  When people run around crying &quot;Why me?&quot; or believing that they just have bad luck, they are victimizing themselves.  If you don&#039;t believe you have any control over anything then you will never take control of your own life.  We shouldn&#039;t beat ourselves up or put all the blame on ourselves, but we do need to take responsibility for what we have contributed to the problems in our lives.  Then and only then can we consciously make a decison to change things.

T. Michelle Theus&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://tmichelletheus.blogspot.com/2008/08/mirror-has-two-faces.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Mirror Has Two Faces&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love it!  I agree.  When people run around crying &#8220;Why me?&#8221; or believing that they just have bad luck, they are victimizing themselves.  If you don&#8217;t believe you have any control over anything then you will never take control of your own life.  We shouldn&#8217;t beat ourselves up or put all the blame on ourselves, but we do need to take responsibility for what we have contributed to the problems in our lives.  Then and only then can we consciously make a decison to change things.</p>
<p>T. Michelle Theus&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://tmichelletheus.blogspot.com/2008/08/mirror-has-two-faces.html" rel="nofollow">The Mirror Has Two Faces</a></p>
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		<title>By: Raven</title>
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		<dc:creator>Raven</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 21:35:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A refreshing way at looking at the events that happens in our lives. The questions certainly make you put things into perspective.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A refreshing way at looking at the events that happens in our lives. The questions certainly make you put things into perspective.</p>
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		<title>By: Phyllis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phyllis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 19:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent advice -- surely lessons we need to keep at the forefront of our minds all the time.  Thanks for sharing!  (The engineer in me loves this -- we&#039;re always on the lookout for continuous process improvement -- the line of thinking in this post will contribute to continuous personal improvement.  Great stuff!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent advice &#8212; surely lessons we need to keep at the forefront of our minds all the time.  Thanks for sharing!  (The engineer in me loves this &#8212; we&#8217;re always on the lookout for continuous process improvement &#8212; the line of thinking in this post will contribute to continuous personal improvement.  Great stuff!)</p>
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		<title>By: Jennifer C.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer C.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 18:49:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When we ask why is something happen to ourselves, it&#039;s almost a belief that we are too good for the bad things to happen to us. Rather it should be happening to someone else. Never do you hear why me, when good things are happening.

We have to take the good with the bad; using the bad to change something and turn the whole situation into good.

Great advice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When we ask why is something happen to ourselves, it&#8217;s almost a belief that we are too good for the bad things to happen to us. Rather it should be happening to someone else. Never do you hear why me, when good things are happening.</p>
<p>We have to take the good with the bad; using the bad to change something and turn the whole situation into good.</p>
<p>Great advice.</p>
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		<title>By: Dera</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dera</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 17:54:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This short words of wisdom is very thought-provoking, very provoking indeed. Thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This short words of wisdom is very thought-provoking, very provoking indeed. Thanks.</p>
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