Hands are often used as weapons of defense or as a gesture of love, concern to comfort someone. Recently, Victoria Olsteen quickly learned that ‘laying of hands’ does not always receive a favorable response. Most folks of color know that you don’t ‘lay your hands’ on a sistah in a confrontational manner if you don’t want a beatdown. Or in this sistah’s case (Olsteen altercation) to be sued for your action.